2. Defining Why
This tool may be the best. Whatever the thing is I wanna start, I ask myself why I wanna do that thing, what I want to happen in the end. Then I'd write few items for why I'm doing it and select the top three items.
Why are the three items important? Because the very next question is: Do my preparation satisfy these top three items? If I start doing the thing, will it be somewhat achieving those three items? If yes, then no more preparation is needed.
The best lessons are learned after starting, not while planning.
3. Staying quiet
Sometimes what stops me from starting something is sharing the plan with people—doesn't matter if they're close. I get excited about the idea, and begin telling the ins and outs of the plan to another person.
This person may be close, and I may love them, but they are usually not an expert in what I tell them. And they usually have opinions about my plan, and whether the opinions are good or bad, it'll usually lead me to either modify the plan, which will take more time, or, for some reason, stop me in my tracks.
There's an immense sense of liberty in staying quiet about a plan.
When I plan, I get excited about how cool my way of thinking is. So because I know I get carried away, I tell myself, I dare you to be quiet about this, until you put this plan in motion, and only tell the people you love about the plan AFTER you succeed.
When I stop seeking help, or opinions, or approvals to my plan, I start earlier, I feel happier, and I succeed faster.
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