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Get rid of everything that bothers you

Surely you have noticed that some people seem to suck your energy, and some objects, smells and sounds, on the contrary, have a positive effect on your condition and work. Therefore, it is important to listen to yourself.
If something or someone is draining you, get rid of it.
For example, don't waste precious time listening to toxic people's complaints and restoring your peace of mind afterwards. Better spend it for the benefit of yourself and your business.

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Take the long way home. Enjoy the scenery. Observe the way they wake up and take note of what makes them laugh. Know when it's about them and when it's about you. Find the spectacular in the mundane. Ask them to text you when they get home, to work, to their vacation destination. Be infinitely curious about how they live their days. Take time apart. Make room on the couch. Embrace the fact you don't know what's best for them. Set boundaries. Express gratitude. Practice trust, even when it's scary (especially then). Keep both feet on the ground. Admit your mistakes. Accept their apologies. Throw away the scorecard. Kiss like you mean it. Ask more questions. Accept that it can be really hard to merge two paths; keep trying to anyway. Give them the aux cord. Give them the last fry. Give them the last word, even if you're really fucking pissed. Figure out what is worth the fight and what is not. Hold the door. Hold their hand. Hold space. Save them a seat. Notice the scattered gold flecks in their eyes. Tell them you're proud of them; tell them this often. Dance in the kitchen. Play hide-and- seek in the grocery store. Know you're lucky. Don't be hasty. Point out the dip in the sidewalk. Offer your arm. Offer your heart. Offer your world. Know when it's time to lovingly let go. Know when you need to hang on like hell.

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“See, growth isn’t this comfortable, miraculous thing. It can get ugly, it can get confusing. It’s gritty, it’s hard. It’s difficult to confront yourself sometimes; it’s difficult to be the person who does things differently, who doesn’t settle. But it’s the greatest gift you will ever give yourself. It will push you towards figuring out what your own personal version of happiness looks like; and when you grow on your own terms, when you figure out what actually matters to you, and when you carve out your own path, you live on your own terms. You love on your own terms. You become the person you have always wanted to be, rather than the person you were always told to be, and that is beautiful. Because when it comes down to it, life is about making yourself proud on your own terms. It’s about finding a happiness that works for you.”

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I'm so proud of you for doing your best to be okay. I'm so proud of you for waking up everyday and trying. I'm so proud of you for being here today because I know some of your yesterdays were really hard. I don't know what you're going through but you are going to get through it. You are going to get through whatever you're going through. I hope you fight for yourself when no one else does and I hope you know you are worthy of your wildest dreams. You are someone worth fighting for. Keep going.

Thank you for being the person who makes people feel okay when they're not okay. The world truly is a kinder place because you are in it.

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Take the long way home. Enjoy the scenery. Observe the way they wake up and take note of what makes them laugh. Know when it's about them and when it's about you. Find the spectacular in the mundane. Ask them to text you when they get home, to work, to their vacation destination. Be infinitely curious about how they live their days. Take time apart. Make room on the couch. Embrace the fact you don't know what's best for them. Set boundaries. Express grati-tude. Practice trust, even when it's scary (especially then).
Keep both feet on the ground. Admit your mistakes. Accept their apologies. Throw away the scorecard. Kiss like you mean it. Ask more questions. Accept that it can be really hard to merge two paths; keep trying to anyway. Give them the aux cord. Give them the last fry. Give them the last word, even if you're really fucking pissed. Figure out what is worth the fight and what is not. Hold the door. Hold their hand. Hold space. Save them a seat. Notice the scattered gold flecks in their eyes. Tell them you're proud of them; tell them this often. Dance in the kitchen. Play hide-and-seek in the grocery store. Know you're lucky. Don't be hasty.
Point out the dip in the sidewalk. Offer your arm. Offer your heart. Offer your world. Know when it's time to lou-ingly let go. Know when you need to hang on like bell.

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You can't force something into your life. If something yis right, you'll never have to wonder. You won't feel lost; you won't feel conflicted. What is right for you will stay. You won't have to chase it; you won't have to mend it. You won't have to bend backward to make it fit your life. When something is right for you, it will bring you peace. There was a reason for those pieces that so pain- fully didn't fit into your life. There's always a reason. I promise you, one day, you will be thankful that the very same thing you wished so hard to have in your life didn't work out.

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Stop minimizing and discounting your feelings. You have every right to feel the way you do. Your feelings may not always be logical, but they re always valid. Because if you feel something, then you feel it, and it's real and true for you. It's not something you can ignore or wish away. It's there, gnawing at you, tugging at your core, and in order to find peace, you have to give yourself permission to feel whatever you feel. You have to let go of what you've been told you "should" or "shouldn't" feel, because there is no "should" when it comes to feelings. You feel what you feel, and it's okay. Your feelings can't be wrong because they're yours. Not your partner's. Not your friends'. Not your family's or your peers' or your coworkers' or random strangers' you meet in passing. They're yours. And you don't need anyone's permission or approval to feel them. Your feelings are important and they matter. You matter-and it's more than okay to feel what you feel. Don't let anyone, including yourself, convince you otherwise.

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I used to be afraid of losing people until I realized most of them were never really down for me anyways.

Even though my loyalty & love for them ran deep, they could care less.

So instead of being afraid of losing them, I fell back & watched them lose me... wow, growth.

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Surround yourself with positive thoughts

Life needs to be surrounded by positive thoughts. The more we think about how terrible our life is, the worse it becomes. The more we talk about difficulties, the more difficult it will be for us. Change your thoughts, your approach, and life itself will change around you.

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Maturity is realising that other people are not mind readers, even those who love you. It’s on you to reach out, talk about how you feel, and to explain yourself. ​Everybody is busy living their own lives and is caught up in their own issues & problems, amidst all that you can’t expect them to magically be in tune with your every need and emotion. Communicate.

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Some of the kindest souls I know have lived in a world that was not so kind to them. Some of the best human beings I know have been through so much at the hands of others, and they still love deeply, they still care. Sometimes, it's the people who have been hurt the most who refuse to be hardened in this world, because they would never want to make another person feel the same way they have felt. If that isn't something to be in awe of, I don't know what is.

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No matter how much you wish you could, you cannot control how another person feels and loves. Just because someone fails to see your worth, it doesn't make them a bad person, and it doesn't mean you are unlovable. It simply means that they are not meant for you.
You should never have to spend your days and nights wondering if you are good enough for somebody. You are enough. You are more than enough for the right person.
Always remember that your happiness comes first. Focus on loving yourself, really loving yourself and you will see your value and find the strength to walk away from unrequited love.
Weeks, months, years will pass and you'll look back and wonder why on earth it took you so long to see that all along you deserved everything you always wished you had.
—You don't love me and it's okay.

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What if I told you that the reason why you want certain things so deeply is because it's already yours at some point on the timeline? Your future self is whispering to you through intuitive feelings, dreams planted deep within, and crystal-clear visions. Those desires are not just wants; they're previews of what's already yours on the timeline of your life. Embody them in this present moment, for they are the breadcrumbs leading you to the manifestation of your destiny.

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People love you.

People want to be around you. People see your light and are inspired by it. When you leave the room, they talk about how lovely you are. Strangers notice your beauty; they feel attracted to your aura. People want to hear your ideas; they want to explore your mind. People want to be your friend. They want to be close to you. They want you in their life. Even if no one has told you lately, trust me, people love you.

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Ah, the bittersweet dance of mixed signals-how frustrating it can be. One moment, they're showering you with attention, lighting up your phone, and always finding a way to cross your path. But the next, they act like a stranger, leaving you to question whether their affection was ever real. They even act distant and aloof, as though the connection you felt was nothing more than a figment of your imagination. You find yourself confused, wondering if you misread their signals or if they're simply playing games.

Here's the truth: they care, but not like you do. They care in their own fleeting way. Their affection comes with conditions and limitations they won't admit to. They're only willing to invest in you when it's convenient and requires minimal effort. You deserve so much more than half-hearted affection. You deserve someone willing to meet you halfway, who sees your worth and is willing to invest in you entirely. Mixed signals aren't a sign of inner conflict; they reflect someone unwilling to give you the love and respect you deserve. So don't settle for someone who's only willing to give you half. You deserve a love that's whole, a connection that's genuine. Hold out for someone who's willing to put in the effort, who sees you for the incredible person you are, and who's willing to meet you all the way, not halfway.

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