Peace of your mind
Are you usually told you cry too much? Are you usually told you over react? Are you usually the one who feel sad knowing no one is going to understand or is understaing you?
Yes, I have been there. I always notice everything, I have always expected the good from people around me, I always wanted people's A.K.A. friends' attention, I have always expected people to treat me the way I treat them. I was always the one who doesn't tell how I felt because no one cared anymore, because I've always "overreacted" over little things, and that actually made me the most over thinking person I've ever known. And it really made me think that no one loves me and that I'm not an important person to anybody. This is when and where everything went wrong in my life, head, emotion and social life. These moment was the worst part of memory.
But everything changed...
I thought about it suddenly, I started letting myself understand how important I am and understand my worth.
You are the one who attract the respect and approval you want, you who get people to understand your worth. Not by seeking attention the wrong way.
You came to this world for a purpose, then why waste time seeking approval from the wrong people? Who are you spending sleepless nights for? Who are they to steal your peace of mind? Start living for yourself. Care about people who care aboit you, love the people who love you, just know how to treat people the way they treat you, if they respect you respect them if they don't well then... ራስህን/ሽን አስከብር/ሪ.
When I'm saying all this it doesn't mean everyone is going to accept you and your change. No, don't ever expect them to support you all the way, but YOU support yourself. Don't let negative comments hold you back. Because people always have something to say about your look, outfit, laugh, choice and everything. So fight your mind that processes the negative comments of the negative people around you.
To get loved, love yourself first. To get respect, give yourself the respect you deserve. Treat yourself right. Don't lose yourself trying to please others. You play the role!
You are acountable for how people treat you. You are accountable for your Peace of Mind!
You come first, respect yourself!
Hanadi Yusuf
@SeriousNot@HanuYusuf