Ladies.
If your beloved speaks highly of another man he admires, don't try to insult, belittle, or disrespect the man he admires.
You don't need to get jealous, and no need to be rude.
Your man is sharing his enthusiasm because you're his trusted friend: don't repay that with disrespect. Or else, you will quickly feel a shift in your relationship.
Instead share his enthusiasm, and ask more questions about why he thinks that way. Your beauty will instantly elevate before his eyes.
Men.
When your beloved is telling you about her struggles, don't bring up struggles of your own that you have experienced in the past.
She's not saying "I'm suffering more than you are."
She's only saying "I'm suffering, and I need a hand."
Not everything is a competition. Let go of your need to feel heard, and focus on her needs. Be curious, and ask her to tell you more about her situation.
She will remember you for it, and perhaps even reward you for it.
If your beloved speaks highly of another man he admires, don't try to insult, belittle, or disrespect the man he admires.
You don't need to get jealous, and no need to be rude.
Your man is sharing his enthusiasm because you're his trusted friend: don't repay that with disrespect. Or else, you will quickly feel a shift in your relationship.
Instead share his enthusiasm, and ask more questions about why he thinks that way. Your beauty will instantly elevate before his eyes.
Men.
When your beloved is telling you about her struggles, don't bring up struggles of your own that you have experienced in the past.
She's not saying "I'm suffering more than you are."
She's only saying "I'm suffering, and I need a hand."
Not everything is a competition. Let go of your need to feel heard, and focus on her needs. Be curious, and ask her to tell you more about her situation.
She will remember you for it, and perhaps even reward you for it.