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The Paradox of Giving Without Receiving

An orange tree does not consume the fruit it produces. Instead, it takes in water, sunlight, and nutrients from the soil, yet the fruit it bears is meant for others—passersby who pick and enjoy it. This natural phenomenon reflects a profound truth about human nature: we often give wisdom, advice, and guidance to others, yet struggle to apply the same lessons to our own lives.

A teacher educates students but may not always follow the principles they teach. A counselor offers solutions to others’ problems while battling their own unresolved conflicts. A leader provides direction yet sometimes feels lost within themselves. We are, in many ways, like the tree—offering what we produce to others while rarely benefiting from it ourselves.

But why does this happen? One reason is that self-application requires a level of self-awareness and discipline that is difficult to maintain. When advising others, we have the clarity of an outsider’s perspective, free from the emotional biases that cloud our own judgment. Yet when it comes to our own struggles, emotions, fears, and habits interfere, making it harder to take the very advice we so confidently give to others.

Ultimately, while it may seem that we exist only to give, we also have the capacity to receive—if we choose to listen to our own wisdom.

The challenge is not in producing knowledge but in embracing it for ourselves.

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