Words Burn

I've met people both online and in person who are highly addicted to porn, lust, social media, and alcohol.

There are other things to be addicted to, but these four seem to be the top addictions flying around.

I've been addicted to some of those myself, and I know how hard you want to escape those addictions.

It feels like you're not in control of your decisions and your body, and it feels hopeless to even try to stop yourself at some point.

I'd like you to know that it is indeed possible. It's hard, your body will fight against you, but it is possible, and you can be victorious.

Remember that nobody will help you with these personal things. Nobody can change you, and I'd be sad if I see you give up on yourself.

You are stronger than you give yourself credit for. Look back at the moments in your life where you exceeded your own expectations, whether it's at school, or work, or working out.

When Michelangelo, the sculptor and artist, saw a piece of marble, he didn't see just a piece of marble. He saw what he could turn that marble into.

And I know that you see the same thing about your body and your life. You know what you want to turn yourself into.

And your body, your heart, your mind, they're all waiting for you to sculpt them into what you're meant to become.

People are going to talk bad about you and criticize you anyways, but on your funeral, after you die, people will immediately start thinking about what they wanna do with their own lives. On the same day you die, people will move on. The same people whose criticisms and whose opinions you are so worried about will forget you in a matter of hours.

So go for life. Start what you need to start, stop what you need to stop.

Go for it.

#small_words

You see a beautiful lady, and let's say, you desire her.

But you shouldn't, because you have a girl.

One way to escape the trap of lusting over many women is this:

As soon as you see the beautiful lady, imagine that she has a man; imagine that she's engaged, or even married.

Then think to yourself, I'd be jealous and angry, if another guy was looking at and desiring my own girl as she's walking the streets. So let me do this beautiful lady's man a favor and avert my attention from her.

It's important to be respectable, in control, and loyal. These virtues matter.

Same goes for you, ladies.

#small_words

A golden ring on her toe; bracelets on her ankles; a slit of a scar—a reminder of her stepfather—on her thigh; a face of a tiger tattooed on her belly, because she was a rebel in her teens; breasts heavy and full of milk, because she opened her legs to an immature boy who left her with a son she hates; a "Don't judge me" tattooed on her neck, because the tiger on her belly wasn't public enough, and most of all is sorrow in her eyes that she masks with a serious frown on her brows.

After a long night shift at her soul-draining janitorial career, she slumps down on her bed, her god-given silky hair scattering on the pillow.

Daddy3 texts her: I'm coming over.

And that's when she showers, puts some makeup on, and steps into the dark blue heels—his favorite.

He loves her dimples, so she forces a smile on before she answers the door.

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He pushes her on the bed, and as she watches him rush out of his cloths, her imagination ignites, turning over her dear fantasy, which is imagining ways to end her life.

The man pushes into her, and she makes the sounds she knows he loves so much, sounds that she knows makes his knees jelly, and in the back of her mind is this bugging thought: What if my son who's sleeping in the next room is actually awake?

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Lying is two types:

1. Saying something different to the truth
2. Withholding the truth

The second type is stranger to people. They think to themselves that it's alright, they're only staying quiet.

I'm doing no harm. I'm only staying quiet.

You are foolish, and you are a liar. When you don't say what you know to be true, you're not "only staying quiet": you are purposefully leading somebody to believe something that isn't true about you, or about something.

What's the difference between lying and letting somebody believe a lie quietly? Nothing.

You're deceiving all the same.

Sunday is here. 🌥

Good morning, and spend an awesome day. Don't forget to smile. 😄

That highly depends on the kind of crime he committed, and also the type of clubbing she's doing.

This statement is too simplistic.

I don't want a raper, a thief, or a con-man, for a son, and I don't want a hoe for a daughter.

I think his post is meant to convey:

I would rather have a thief for a son than a hoe for a daughter.

Be genuine. 🪶

As a human being, it is very very important to master control over sexual impulses.

The more you do, the more powerful you become.

The less you do, the more miserable you feel.

Massive W for this dad!

He has his priorities straight. 💯

I stare longer, I relate to this thing right here.

Guys, I'll reveal to you a secret that ladies won't ever tell, a secret that could give you enormous confidence.

If you're dealing with a lady you like, remember that she's very sensitive and sometimes insecure about how she looks.

Because of that general trait of women, you should pay attention to how she moves, how she smiles, what happens when she laughs, the shape her face takes when she's looking away, what her forehead does when she's focused.

As you pay attention, you'll find something in particular that makes you feel good. Maybe there's a body mark on her arm that you found attractive, maybe there's a different tone to her laughter that melted you, or maybe her timing of when to joke around and when to be serious really impressed you.

And mention THAT to her. Tell her what you saw, and tell her how it made you feel, what it made you think of her. That's how the right compliment is found.

As you do this thing, however, remember two things:

1. Do not exaggerate,
because she'll feel like you're lying. Don't color things up. Just say what you noticed, and what about that made you feel a way. (If you exaggerate, do it only for comical reasons.)

2. She may put down your compliment or push it away,

and don't be discouraged by that. Ladies (humans in general) have this tendency to resist compliments, because she doesn't wanna fall for kind words and become a fool. What if you're a dickhead who's looking for a quick ride. She has to look out for herself.

When she resists the compliment, saying something like, "No, this is not that attractive honestly," it's often an invitation for you to try harder. Because the harder you try, the more invested you are in her. The more invested you are in her, the more attractive you'll appear to her, and you'll actually become somebody worthy of her love and effort.

Ladies do this very often. They reject, or push away a compliment using many techniques. Maybe it's a sigh, maybe it's a statement like the one above.

That's okay. Just simply say that you meant it and move on. Don't stay there to explain why you meant it and how you meant it. No. You'll prove yourself when you keep paying attention to her, and then giving her those little compliments that are a genuine reflection of how you view her.

So first rule is to be very attentive to her, her gestures, and her body. That alone, many ladies immediately find attractive. I promise you that paying attention to little details is not as easy as it sounds.

Second rule is to point out what you noticed that you genuinely loved. Don't borrow lines from movies and songs. Fuck that. Go with your raw reaction to what you noticed in her, and tell her that. Whatever type of lady she is, I'm sure she doesn't like boring compliment that she knows doesn't match the reality of her being.

If you're scared and can't say the compliment to her—perhaps she intimidates you—then tell her that you have something on your mind you want to tell her, but you're worried what she would think of it.

That will make it easier for you, and it will light a spark of curiosity for her.

Bonus tip: Put your fucking phone away when she's around. Focus.

#small_words

Ever encountered people who tend to make you feel more guilty when you confess your crimes, or your wrongdoing to them?

"You did what? Why would you do that?"

If you have encountered them, then you know what it looks like when people milk guilt out of you.

Stop doing that to your family and friends. Stop embodying a character you hate seeing in others.

"I hate liars," says a woman who lies both to others and to herself every day.

Her cloths near the bedpost, she lie down on the bed prone, eyes and lips sealed. A smile that comes, not from humor, but from feeling peace, lightly kisses her mouth.

My eyes run down from her hair to her spine down to her feet. She's a meal to be had, she's a gem to be cherished, and I'm uncertain if I have what she needs. I'm only certain that I need a touch, perhaps a taste, if I may.

My fingers slide down the middle of her spine, feeling the softness, the freckles. I look at the shades of the color of her skin, and I'm lost in a trance-like state.

I could sense she's wondering if I like what I'm seeing, if I'm enjoying her.

I clear hair from her neck and ear... A kiss on her cheek, a little bite on her neck. She breathes in longer, grabbing the back of my neck as if asking me to stay close.

"So beautiful," I whisper.

"I know."

My palm strikes her hip with a swift clap, and she giggles. Cocky woman.

#justwords