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Some of the kindest souls I know have lived in a world that was not so kind to them. Some of the best human beings I know have been through so much at the hands of others, and they still love deeply, they still care. Sometimes, it's the people who have been hurt the most who refuse to be hardened in this world, because they would never want to make another person feel the same way they have felt. If that isn't something to be in awe of, I don't know what is.

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No matter how much you wish you could, you cannot control how another person feels and loves. Just because someone fails to see your worth, it doesn't make them a bad person, and it doesn't mean you are unlovable. It simply means that they are not meant for you.
You should never have to spend your days and nights wondering if you are good enough for somebody. You are enough. You are more than enough for the right person.
Always remember that your happiness comes first. Focus on loving yourself, really loving yourself and you will see your value and find the strength to walk away from unrequited love.
Weeks, months, years will pass and you'll look back and wonder why on earth it took you so long to see that all along you deserved everything you always wished you had.
—You don't love me and it's okay.

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What if I told you that the reason why you want certain things so deeply is because it's already yours at some point on the timeline? Your future self is whispering to you through intuitive feelings, dreams planted deep within, and crystal-clear visions. Those desires are not just wants; they're previews of what's already yours on the timeline of your life. Embody them in this present moment, for they are the breadcrumbs leading you to the manifestation of your destiny.

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People love you.

People want to be around you. People see your light and are inspired by it. When you leave the room, they talk about how lovely you are. Strangers notice your beauty; they feel attracted to your aura. People want to hear your ideas; they want to explore your mind. People want to be your friend. They want to be close to you. They want you in their life. Even if no one has told you lately, trust me, people love you.

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Ah, the bittersweet dance of mixed signals-how frustrating it can be. One moment, they're showering you with attention, lighting up your phone, and always finding a way to cross your path. But the next, they act like a stranger, leaving you to question whether their affection was ever real. They even act distant and aloof, as though the connection you felt was nothing more than a figment of your imagination. You find yourself confused, wondering if you misread their signals or if they're simply playing games.

Here's the truth: they care, but not like you do. They care in their own fleeting way. Their affection comes with conditions and limitations they won't admit to. They're only willing to invest in you when it's convenient and requires minimal effort. You deserve so much more than half-hearted affection. You deserve someone willing to meet you halfway, who sees your worth and is willing to invest in you entirely. Mixed signals aren't a sign of inner conflict; they reflect someone unwilling to give you the love and respect you deserve. So don't settle for someone who's only willing to give you half. You deserve a love that's whole, a connection that's genuine. Hold out for someone who's willing to put in the effort, who sees you for the incredible person you are, and who's willing to meet you all the way, not halfway.

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This year, I hope you learn how to let go of everyone's opinion of your life. I hope you start to see, from a place that lives deep within you, that there is no universally correct way to live a life that is solely your own. Every human being has different goals, has different concepts of what happiness looks like, has a different concept of what it truly means to be alive.
And because of that, people will judge you - the world will try to change you, but you must continue to move in your own direction, you must continue to go at your own pace, because if you allow for that to alter your path you're going to end up living someone else's life. I hope you learn how to make your life your own. I hope you learn how to make your time here something you are proud of.

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You have come a long way even if it is hard to believe sometimes. You are handling it better than your past version could have. You have grown tremendously. Celebrate the journey you have undertaken so far. Any progress is a progress. Applaud yourself for each step you take.

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"Maybe right now it feels like nothing will ever get better and that your mind might only wander to everything that could go wrong or situations that will stress you out.
But darling, there are so many good things in the world - good things that will happen to you. Think about all the beaches we are going to see, all the concerts we are going to go to, all the people we have not met yet, all the places and cities we are going to visit, all the recipes we are going to try out, and all the endless opportunities we will be offered.
Your mind may portray the future as dark and scary but that does not mean that it is. You are going to bloom and you are going to be happy. Your future shines so bright. Please do not listen to the voices in your head; instead of imagining everything that could fail, imagine everything that can (and will) go right"

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Comparisons

Do you think you have more problems than others? This way you put yourself above others. In addition, you develop a habit of self-pity, which will not bring anything positive into your life. Understand that everyone has their own path and their own destiny, and everyone is destined to go through certain tests in order to truly find happiness and inner harmony.

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If you have someone that still texts you when you haven't replied for hours, watches you give other people attention while you ignore them, or even just handles all the bullshit you throw at them and is still around, you need to knock some fucking sense into yourself, tell them thank you and I love you, and never fucking let them go cause someone like that is hard to find in this shitty ass world.

Drop a ❤️ if you feel this.

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The truth is, letting go is difficult. It doesn't matter how much your head wants to move on if your heart is still right there, stuck in the past, and filled with hope. Letting go doesn't happen overnight. It's not a linear process. There will be days when it doesn't hurt but there will be others when the simple act of listening to your favorite song or seeing their favorite brand of pasta at the store will throw you into a tailspin. And that's okay.
It doesn't mean you're broken or weak. It means you're human. You can't quickly forget someone responsible for some of your happiest memories. Not like that—not in the blink of an eye. It takes time, so be kind to yourself while you navigate the healing journey. They may be no longer in your life like they were, but they'll forever be in your heart.
Be patient with yourself while stuck in the in-between place the place between here and there. That place between wanting to move on and holding on tighter. Even though right now you can't see it through your tear-filled eyes, you'll get through this. I promise, you will. And on those hard days, remind yourself that when life doesn't give you what you want, it's because there's usually something better coming up next.

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Have you ever experienced the pain of falling in love with someone-not because of who they are but because of who they could be, because of who they would be if they lived up to their promises, if they lived up to their words, if the had a heart like yours. It hurts to see so much potential in someone who has no desire to be the person you know they are worthy of becoming. If you have experienced this before, I want you to know that you deserve someone who is everything you need, someone who keeps their promises someone who has more than just potential. You deserve someone who follows through. You deserve to have every little bit of energy you put in, given back. You deserve it all.

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Maybe it's okay that you haven't worked out every little detail just yet. Maybe it's okay that you're feeling a little lost lately. Maybe you don't need all the answers right now maybe everything you need now, is right here. Maybe the only thing you're missing is trust believing that everything will work out the way it's supposed to. Once you let go of your fears and put your trust into yourself and into the universe, that's when it all comes together. Maybe this is your sign to do it, whatever thing you're thinking of when reading this. This is your sign to trust yourself. This is your sign it's time for change.

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